Supporting someone with aphasia (difficulty speaking or understanding language after a stroke or brain injury) can be challenging, but there are practical ways families can help. Here are some useful tips:
1. Be Patient and Give Time
- Let the person take their time to speak or respond. Rushing them can increase frustration. Give them space to process what you’re saying and to find their words.
2. Simplify Your Language
- Use short, simple sentences and focus on one idea at a time. Avoid complex language or too many details that could overwhelm them.
3. Use Yes/No Questions
- Asking questions that can be answered with a simple “yes” or “no” can make communication easier, especially if they’re having trouble finding the right words.
4. Incorporate Gestures and Visuals
- Use hand movements, facial expressions, pictures, or objects to help get your message across. Visual aids can make communication clearer and reduce misunderstandings.
5. Encourage Alternative Communication Methods
- Encourage the use of non-verbal communication, such as writing, drawing, or pointing to objects or pictures. If speech is difficult, these methods can help them express their thoughts.
6. Be Supportive, Not Corrective
- Avoid correcting every mistake they make. Focus on understanding their message, not perfect speech. Over-correcting can lead to frustration and reduce their confidence in trying to communicate.
7. Maintain Eye Contact and Focus
- Give them your full attention by maintaining eye contact and turning off distractions (TV, phone). This shows that you’re listening and helps them stay engaged in the conversation.
8. Create a Relaxed Atmosphere
- Stress and pressure can make it harder for someone with aphasia to communicate. Keep conversations relaxed and don’t draw attention to their difficulties. A calm environment makes communication easier.
9. Repeat and Rephrase When Needed
- If they don’t understand something, repeat it using simpler words or try rephrasing your question or statement. Be ready to reword without getting frustrated.
10. Celebrate Small Successes
- Celebrate the progress they make, no matter how small. Positive reinforcement encourages them to keep trying and makes communication feel less like a struggle.
By staying patient, flexible, and supportive, families can create a positive environment where the person with aphasia feels understood and included in conversations.